AITA for pursuing my personal goals rather than college

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AITA for pursuing my personal goals rather than college

AITA for not wanting to go to college?

I’m hesitant to attend college because I don’t see much purpose in a degree, especially when people often end up working in fields unrelated to their studies. I’ve shared my concerns with my parents, arguing that I’d rather work for a few years, learn new skills, and even start a business. They believe I can do that while in school, but I think most lessons are quickly forgotten, and hands-on work experience would be more valuable.

They’ve pushed the idea that just having a degree, regardless of the field, is important for my resume. They also tell stories of successful graduates, but I pointed out that many people without degrees are doing well, while some who graduated are in entry-level jobs. Most of my family fits this pattern.

My parents still want me to go to college so they can be proud and brag about my degree. I suggested a compromise: I would attend a prestigious school for engineering, a program that could guarantee a good job. They agreed to “check into it,” but after two years, they said we couldn’t afford it. So, I started working at Jollibee, earning minimum wage.

I’m content with my current situation, living with a house given to me by relatives and focusing on things I enjoy like video games and biking. I don’t feel the pressure to pursue a degree anymore, especially since I’m already financially stable and my life goal is more about personal fulfillment than meeting others’ expectations.

Now, my parents are disappointed, and they still want me to pursue a degree, even though I’m focused on my own goals. I’ve considered their perspective, but I feel like I’m making the right choice for myself.

So, AITA for not going to college and focusing on my own path?