AITA for requesting that my teacher not partner me with my deadbeat father’s daughter?

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AITA for requesting that my teacher not partner me with my deadbeat father’s daughter?

My father walked out on my mom when she was pregnant with me (16m). They were married for like 5 years at that point but he was cheating a lot. Mom trying to divorce him went through hell because they’d picked up and moved. He never met me. He didn’t show up at court for their divorce, or for custody, or for child support. He went to jail three times for failure to pay child support and for trying to avoid child support by quitting his jobs and not declaring his new place of employment.

I still haven’t even met him. But around a year ago he moved back with his family (the affair partner and their kids). He has a daughter 5 months younger than me a son about a year and a half younger and some other kids who are younger again but I don’t know their ages. I only know the older two ages because of school and sharing some classes with his daughter.

She has tried to connect with me but I told her I wasn’t interested, we’re not family, I don’t want to know the affair family. Even though she was upset and cried a little in front of me, she didn’t give up. And when we returned to our classes in August she was suddenly in four of mine instead of one like last year. So I went to our teacher who assigns a lot of group stuff and asked her to never pair me with her. I explained the reason why and she was surprised but agreed that it would be for the best to avoid hostility during the project and especially if others are working with us.

Twice she has tried to claim me as a partner or make me a part of her group. The first time as her solo partner and the second time in a bigger group. Both times our teacher refused.

This made her realize what I’d done. She told her parents, they went to the principal and demanded a meeting with me and my mom. Mom went but left me out of it and explained why to the principal and told him she didn’t think the first time I meet my “father” should be when he wants to berate me for not working with his daughter. They tried to say I was bullying their daughter and I should be facing suspension OR be forced to make it up to her through some kind of buddy program. The principal didn’t take it seriously. But his daughter and son now stare at me a lot more in school the last couple of weeks, since the meeting, and a couple of her friends said I was such a d****k for embarrassing her like that and not getting to know her.

AITA?